As title suggests...
I've been thinking about something that's been bothering me for awhile.
Decided to come up with some steps for myself on how to be a better man. (And also for whoever that still bothers to read this blog)
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1. Decide what traits a 'good' person has. One can do this by observing people that he/she loves or respects. Realizing their best qualities and admirable traits and implementing them upon one's personality.
2. Don't force others into things you do. This involves religion, work, beliefs, culture, etc. Most people are happy with who they are, and won't necessarily respond positively to shoving.
3. Think before you speak. A good listener often is a "good" person. Subsequently, trust from others will follow. When you have the power of someones trust, do not take it for granted. Use this trust, to help people better themselves.
4. Empathize with others' plights or circumstances. Listening to your heart and following it instead of being judgmental contributes to your being a better person. Being honest in your dealings with others also promotes positive relationships. Problems arise when the truth is not spoken or twisted to suit one's motives. Choose your words carefully and precisely. Express yourself kindly.
5. Choose to grow. Rather than staying put where you are, choose to be a better person day by day.
I promise to reflect on what others say about me and try my very best to change for the better. Please let me know where i fall short... =/
Signing Off,
-Khai
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